December News!
Insider Tips for Healthy, Wealthy and Happy Living
Inside This Issue…
- Detangle Stress Of Family Ties…
- Avoid Online Shopping Scams…
- Fun Facts and Laughs: Highest-Paid Comedians, Essential Technologies For 2012, And More…
- Trivia Challenge: Win a Free ProOil Change for Your Car
- Real Estate Q&A: How Do I Find The Best Deal When Getting A Home Loan?
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Steven Silva
Sales Representative
Royal LePage Your Community Realty
Phone: 1-855-737-8383
Email: AskStevenSilva@gmail.com
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Dear Friend,
Time with family during the holidays can be fun, but it can also be stressful. In this months free newsletter you’ll learn how to lower your stress levels when visiting family for the holidays.
You’ll also learn how to avoid scammers when shopping online, get more done with a few essential technology tools, plus get a trivia challenge and lots more.
Steven Silva
Steven Silva, REALTOR®
Royal LePage
PS. If you’re in the market to sell your home (or buy a home), pick up a copy of my Free Consumer Report “12 Questions You Should Ask Before Hiring Any Real Estate Agent”. Simply email me to get this helpful resource for yourself or a friend: AskStevenSilva@gmail.com, or call me at: 1-855-737-8383.
Today’s Brain Teaser . . .
What happened in 1961 that will not happen again until 6009?
(see answer below)
Detangle Stress Of Family Ties . . .
The holidays are a wonderful opportunity to spend time with family. But sometimes the pleasure of being with our loved ones comes with a few tangled ties to stress. Here are a few strategies to make sure you experience maximum joy from being with family:
Get Rid of Fantasy. If your image of the perfect holiday has Tiny Tim’s voice ringing “God bless us, every one!” your great expectations may be completely out of alignment with reality. Communication problems are not unusual with extended families. You cannot control every situation, but you can lead by example, setting aside differences and bad patterns.
Establish Ground Rules and Boundaries. Among the immediate family discuss what is expected. Agree to keep respect for each other and to not share anything with the extended family that would cause embarrassment. Develop your own family traditions and be willing to let go of outdated rituals that no longer serve you and your immediate family.
Simplify, Prioritize, and Say No. Remember the wisdom of a 1960′s band who told us that you Can’t Buy Me Love. Less can be more when it comes to gift giving. Let your heart express love in ways that may not require a lot of money and give yourself permission to spend less.
Provide Structure for Kids. You’ve heard before that love is spelled with the letters T-I-M-E. Yet during the holiday season kids can become starved for attention as you rush around trying to do everything. Break away from the extended family at least once each day to take walks or some other physical activity. Giving this time to your kids, and limiting sugar and caffeine, can go a long way to them behaving when you are around extended family.
Honor Your Own Needs and Limitations. Trust that quiet inner voice that tells you when you have done enough. You deserve time to sit down and reflect on your many blessings, including your family!
Thinking Of Buying A Home Soon?
If you’re planning to buy a home in the next 6 months, you’ll want a copy of my Free consumer guide, “49 Essential Tips Every Home Buyer Should Know.” My exclusive report will help you avoid frustrations when finding, buying, and financing your next home. To get a copy, just email me by clicking here, or call me at: 1-855-737-8383.
Avoid Online Shopping Scams . . .
The convenience of doing holiday shopping online is really appealing. Follow these four tips from shopping experts for avoiding scams and making safe purchases online:
Read the domain carefully at the top of the browser. If the name is slightly different than the legitimate retailer – with extra words, or misspellings – it could be a sneaky company hoping to snag your money. Read more of this post
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